Is My Teen Just Moody—or in Need of Help?
Is My Teen Just Moody—or in Need of Help?
A Parent’s Guide to Teen Mental Health in 2025
By Maria Mojica-Rangel, PMHNP-BC
Board-Certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner
If you're concerned about your teen's mental health, you're not alone. Two years after the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) and other national health organizations declared a national youth mental health emergency, many adolescents are still struggling.
The pressures teens face today are overwhelming: academic performance, social media, extracurricular expectations, and a world that often feels uncertain. As a parent, how do you know when your teen’s emotional ups and downs are a normal part of adolescence—or a sign that they need help?
Signs Your Teen May Need Support
The AAP and the American Psychiatric Association (APA) recommend watching for:
- Noticeable changes in sleep, appetite, or energy
- Loss of interest in hobbies or social activities
- Withdrawal from friends and family
- A drop in school performance or motivation
- Irritability, tearfulness, or hopelessness
- Increased risk-taking or substance use
- Evidence of self-harm or suicidal thoughts
Seeing one sign occasionally doesn’t mean your teen is in crisis. But if signs persist or intensify, it’s time to open a conversation—and possibly, to get professional help.
What Are the Most Common Mental Health Challenges for Teens?
- Anxiety disorders (impacting nearly 1 in 10 teens)
- Depression, often presenting as irritability or fatigue
- ADHD, which can affect emotional regulation and focus
- Eating disorders and self-harm, which often go unnoticed
- Substance use, often as a way to cope with deeper emotional pain
How Can Parents Help?
Start with connection. The AAP recommends regular, supportive conversations—not just one-off talks. Here’s how:
- Create a safe space for open, judgment-free communication
- Use observations, not accusations: “I noticed you’ve been quieter lately…”
- Listen actively and validate their feelings
- Avoid trying to fix everything immediately—just being present matters
When to Seek Professional Help
Your pediatrician is a great first step. They can:
- Screen for mental health conditions
- Recommend therapy, medication, or other supports
- Connect you to local specialists
- Work with you to develop a treatment and safety plan
If your teen is having thoughts of suicide or is in immediate danger, contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline or text TALK to 741741.
Everyday Mental Wellness Matters
Mental health is more than crisis prevention—it’s daily care. Encourage your teen to:
- Get enough sleep and balanced meals
- Move their body and get outside daily
- Spend time with friends and family
- Set boundaries with screens and social media
- Have time for fun, rest, and creativity
You're Not Alone—And Neither Is Your Teen
Mental health is part of whole-person health. There is no shame in seeking support, just as there’s no shame in treating a physical illness. Show yourself and your child compassion. Reach out early. Healing is possible—and help is always available.
Need support for your teen’s mental health?
At Harmony Psychiatry & Wellness, we’re here to listen and help.

